What is the most stressful part of organizing the holiday season for you?

During the holiday season expectations are raised.  The food needs to be perfect, the gift needs to be thoughtfully purchased, the house needs to be tastefully decorated, and everyone needs to be happy all the time.  Record your expectations for season.  Everything you can think of.  Look through your list and decide on a plan that makes each expectation manageable for you.  If your expectations align with practicality, this holiday will be less stressful and more fun.

Planning Food

Could you:

Make a simple Holiday meal.

Make a simple Holiday meal.

  1. Cook ahead of time and freeze the food
  2. Plan a potluck with everyone contributing
  3. Buy your holiday baking
  4. Simplify your menu,prepare fewer items

 

Gift Giving

Could you:

  1. Reduce the number of people you buy for
  2. Draw names so everyone gets one gift
  3. Set a price limit on the value of the gift
  4. Plan an experience instead of buying a gift: go to a play, go out for dinner, and go to a movie

 

 

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Decorating

Could you:

Plant a bulb and watch it grow

Use flowers to decorate.

  1.   Put out fewer items
  2.   Use larger items to make the space look decorated instead of using  lots of small                 items
  3.   Decorate with flowers; you don’t have to pack them away when the season is over

 

 

 

Be Happy

Could you:

Spend time together doing things you enjoy

Spend time together doing things you enjoy

  1. Plan your schedule so you don’t get over tired
  2. Plan down time so each member of the group can spend time alone
  3. Plan things you like to do, not have to do
  4. Plan to exercise and get fresh air

Can you learn to ask for help and accept help?

Julie Stobbe is a Trained Professional Organizer and Lifestyle Organizing Coach who brings happiness to homes and organization to offices, in person and virtually. She enjoys working with her clients to provide customized organizing solutions to suit their individual needs and situation. She reduces clutter, streamlines processes and manages time to help her clients be more effective in reaching their goals. Julie can coach you to break-free of the physical or emotional clutter constraining you from living life on your terms. 

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  1. When I was still living at home with my parents, my mother discovered a menu for a make-ahead Christmas dinner. You prepared the mashed potatoes and turnips ahead of time and they just had to be popped in the oven. She still cooked the turkey on Christmas day, but it took a lot of pressure off to have the veggies prepared ahead of time.

    • One year I head to cook the turkey ahead of time (one day). A friend told me how to reheat it with some of the juices and put the roasted skin over top, cover it and reheat at 290. I did it and it worked great. Now my sister does that every year. She likes having the carving done, gravy made, bones boiled for soup and the mess cleaned up the day before.

  2. Amen on aligning your expectations. I think some of the best times I’ve ever had were the ones that surprised me. In contrast, when I have my hopes set very high on things going “a certain way,” this is when I am most likely to be disappointed. To the extent we can, we benefit by striving to minimize our expectations and just see how things unfold. In terms of food, I have to admit that we decided to order Chinese food on Christmas eve many years ago. There is so much else going on, and this just simplifies things. Now it is a beloved tradition!

    • We used to go to my Mom’s house for Christmas so we set a tradition of a ” special meal” at our house but not turkey before we went on the road. It changed over the years as the children got older and it became Fondue, meat, cheese and dessert fondues. Still a special event when we are all together.

  3. What a great series of questions? Being clear about your expectations and actually questioning them is a great way to move into the holiday season. It begs the question, just because I’ve always done something one way, does it mean I have to keep doing it that way? And clearly, the answer is no…at least it’s no if you want it to be.

    Wishing you and yours a very happy (just as you expect it to be) holiday season!

    • This year I asked my family if a Turkey dinner is a must for Christmas being Christmas. I was surprised to learn the expectation was Yes. Now I know and I can make my plan.
      Wishing you and yours a very special hoilday season.

  4. The advantage of being an unmarried woman with no kids and a member of a minority religion is that pretty much nobody has any expectations for me to cook, decorate, or shop, so anything I do choose to do provides me (and others) with unexpected delight. For those who struggle under the weight of those expectations, your wise guidance can make that load quite a bit lighter!

    • If you can keep the expectations under control it does provide some structure to the holiday season. You can repeat well liked events, drop unimportant events and the schedule is set without much extra planning. I do like that your life allows for surprises. We should all encorporate the unexpected into our holiday season and enjoy the delight we see. Thanks for your comments and enjoy your holiday time.

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