Here are some tips for holiday planning to make a H A P P Y month.
You maybe feeling overwhelmed or disorganized by the quantity of items on display in your house. Try putting the non-seasonal items away to reduce the number of items on display.
Think about decorating with fewer items but larger size items. This means there are fewer items to pack and unpack which will reduces the amount of time you need to prepare your home.
Take advantage of using linens to cover tables or end table and pillows to decorate couches. They may be less bulky to store and cover a larger area making your home seem completely decorated while taking less time to get the job done.
Use items that self destruct so you don’t need to pack them away, flowers, paper towels, tissue boxes all give your house a festival spirit but don’t need to be packed away and stored.
When you go through your decorations part with the ones you know longer need early in the month so thrift store have an opportunity to sell them and so they don’t need to store them until next year. Some stores don’t take holiday décor in January and then you will be stuck storing them for another year.
Acknowledge that you are feeling overwhelmed and stressed and when people offer to do things say yes. We all love to help people so let people feel good about themselves by allowing them to help you.
If people volunteer to bring food to a party accept gratefully. Allow people to help clean up dishes on their way out the door. In fact be ready for it. Have a place to put cutlery to soak. Have out a container for compost. Put glasses or coffee mugs directly into the dishwasher.
Planning is important
Use a to do list. Divide your to do list into to pick up, to e-mail, to call, to buy then you can plan your day and route to get things done and not be driving back and forth all over town. The trick here is to actually look at the list and use it not just make it.
Keep your plans from year to year, record your menu, grocery list quantities, time lines. Each year you can reuse, revise and update the plan
People and relationships are the reason for the season
Some people like to send cards in December. I keep my cards and addresses and stamps all together. When I am going somewhere where I will be waiting I pick up the supplies and take them along and write my cards. I have done it at hockey rinks, doctor’s offices, bus stations and on car trips. I usually leave replies to someone who has sent me a longer letter until January.
If you want to automate the card sending operation there is a company called send out cards.
Gift giving maybe an area where you are developing a system. Have you thought about Clutter free gift giving?
Consider the idea of a gift that self destructs. See my post on Clutter Free Gift Giving
Yes you can
Being organized is more about an attitude then how something looks. It is not about having the perfect home, party or gift it is doing the best you can with the time and resources that you have. The only way to get better at organizing is to practice. It is a skill that can be learned and with practice it becomes easier and easier.